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Flirting or Just Friendly: How To Tell If She’s Into You

Many guys are brave and ask girls on dates just because they want to.  On the other hand, you may be looking for guidance or reassurance.  If you don’t want to put your heart on the line just yet, wait and see if a girl flirts with you.  If so, it is almost guaranteed she will accept your date invitation.  But, wait!  How do you tell if a girl is flirting with you or just being nice?

If she smiles.  A smile alone is hard to determine if a girl is just being nice or flirting, but it all depends.  To determine, quickly judge it.  Some are expressionless smiles, where they look forced.  In this instance, she is just being nice, not flirting.  On the other hand, you will have excited and seductive smiles.  A girl who smiles and giggles or blushes is excited about the contact made.  This is flirting.  A seductive smile means she has something going on beyond the scenes.  Of course, you should approach her, but with a seductive smile, she may just do it herself.

If she makes eye contact.  Eye contract can be tricky to determine if a girl is flirting with you.  This is because we all make eye contact.  We automatically scan a room when we enter it.  During that time, we are bound to make eye contact with someone.  So, if eye contact is made from afar, it may just be a coincidence.  But, if she approaches you and looks into your eyes when talking, she is

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First Date Dos and Don’ts

 Did you finally get around to asking that girl you have been eyeing on a date?  If so, when is the big day?  What do you have planned?  If you have yet to have your date or even start planning it, continue reading on for a helpful list of first date dos and don’ts.

DO pay for the date.  You asked; therefore, you should pay.  If the relationship grows and results in more dates, then consider alternating payment or splitting the bill, but for the first date, you should pay.  As for why this tops the list, it may require a little bit of savings on your part.  If you are a teenager with limited cash flow or if you opt for a fancy restaurant, you need to prepare ahead of time.

DON’T pour on the cologne.  Unfortunately, many guys think the more the cologne the better.  This isn’t true!  Only splash a dap of cologne on you.  Even girls who don’t have allergies will have reactions to strong cologne or too much of it.  So don’t ruin your

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First Date Conversation Ideas

If you are gearing up for a first date, you may be nervous about the conversation.  First dates become extremely awkward when the wrong things are said or when nothing is said at all.  If topics of discussion on your first date is a fear of yours, continue reading on for a few suggestions.

In terms of first date conversations, it is best to plan.  When doing so, break the date down into three different categories.  These categories are beginning, middle, and end.  When you consider each part of your date, as opposed to the whole night, coming up with conversation ideas doesn’t sound so hard.

As for the beginning of the date, it depends on how you start the night.  Did you pickup your date or meet her at the destination?  Regardless, opt for a quick greeting.  A simple “Hi, thank for coming,” should be the first words out of your mouth.

If you pick a date up at her home, greet he

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First Date Advice

Did you ask a girl you like out on a date?  Did she say yes?  Right about now, you may be excited.  As your date approaches, your excitement may turn to nervousness.  What should I wear? How should I act?  Where should we go?  Continue reading on for a few helpful tips.

Planning the Date

When you asked the girl on a date, what did you say?  If you asked her to the movies, that is where you should go.  Do not change a date location without first speaking to her.  This is one of the fastest ways to ruin a first date.  If you want to sneak in dinner or a drinks, that is okay, but always live up to your words.  If you do make changes, discuss them in advance.

If you asked the girl if she would like to go out with you, but didn’t provide her with a destination, start thinking about it now.  Don’t decide at the last minute, as this may result in disaster.  The best first dates are those where you can

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Dos and Don’ts of High School Dating

Are you a high school student who is new to dating?  If so, you need to familiarize yourself with the dos and don’ts of high school dating.  By doing so, you are less likely to suffer from embarrassment or upset a girl.

Asking for a Date

DO look beyond looks.  Of course, you want to date a girl that is attractive, but it is important to go for more.  Dating is not a popularity contest.  Being with the hottest girl in school is nice, but make sure she has a good personality too.  So look beyond looks.  Find a girl that has similar interests as you or one with a great personality.

DON’T use a girl.  As previously stated, you should ask a girl on a date because you like her.  For that reason, do not use a girl.  If you want to be popular, rely on your own personality to get you there, not a girl from school.  Only date girls that you truly like or have an interest in, not because she may increase your popularity ranking.

DO be confident.  When asking a girl on a date, confidence is important.  With that said, if you are nervous or excited, that is fine too.  The best approach to take is

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Cocky Pickup Lines: To Use or Not To Use

 Have you seen the movies where a guy uses a pickup line to get a girl?  Most likely, you have.  It happens in most comedy movies, but does it happen in real life?   Yes, it does.  That doesn’t mean it is a good idea though.

Before focusing on the pros and cons of using a pickup line to meet a girl and get a date, know that pickup lines come in a number of different formats.  Honestly, it all depends on who you ask.  Some classify “hi, how are you doing tonight?” or “are you having as much fun as me?” as pickup lines.  For this article, we are going to focus on the funny, yet occasionally cocky pickup lines, like the ones you see in the above mentioned comedy movies.

So, what exactly is a funny, yet cocky pickup line?  It is one where overconfidence just pours from you.  It screams “I am a good catch.  I know it and now you will too.”  A few cocky pickup lines include:

“I’m going outside to make out.  Do you care to join me?”
“I have big feet!”
“Do you work for UPS?  Because I could have sworn you were checking out my package.”

As previously stated, just because there are a ton of pickup lines available online for you to use, it doesn’t mean you should.  Many times, they backfire.  For example,

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5 Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date

Do you want to ask a girl out on a date?  If so, you may be curious as to what your options are.  How can you ask?  Better yet, how should you ask?  Continue reading on for five ways to ask a girl for a date and information on which approach is the best.

1 – In Person

By far, the best way to ask a girl on a date is to do so in person.  Whether you are a teenage boy asking a teen girl or an adult asking a woman on a date, do it in person.  This increases your chance of getting a yes.  Why?  Because it is personal.

Asking a girl for a date in person is the best way to get a yes, but it can be hard.  If you are new to dating or just ended a long-term relationship, flirting and dating may be weird.  It can be difficult to jump right in.  The best way to get over your fear is to just do it.  Ask a girl on a date.  It is simple as that.  However, if you are nervous try striking up a casual conversation first.  If you see a good opportunity to ask for a date, like if movies or restaurants come up, ask.

2 – Over-the-Phone

If you are unable to work up the courage to ask a girl on a date in person, the phone is the next best approach to take.  Do you have her phone number?  If so, make the call.  When doing so, it is best to get right to the point.  If this is a woman you just met, she may be puzzled if you just call her to strike up a conversation.  If she gave you her phone number, she was hoping you would call to ask for a date, so do it!

With today’s technology, many guys use cell phones to communicate.  If you use yours, stick to a traditional call.  Sending a text message takes a lot of pressure off, but it is very impersonal.  If you do opt for a text message, avoid

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