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Dating Advice
How should I dress up for my date? How safe is it to go on a blind date? Am I supposed pay the bill? Is it okay to have sex on the first date? Read on for some useful dating advice…
I don’t understand the whole dating thing. I know right off the bat if I’m interested in someone, and I don’t want them to waste their money on me and take me out to eat if I know I’m not interested in that person. ~ Britney Spears
Well, not everyone might be as good as Bri
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Hey everyone, I decided it would be a great idea to post up the latest news from Google so here it is…
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Miss California Dating Michael Phelps…Sort of…
Speaking of shutting up, our man Michael has repeatedly denied dating Prejean but recent reports and pics suggest that not only did the Olympian get … Read More…
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Though they seemed very comfortable together and had a very special connection, Steve-O denies that he is dating his Dancing with the Stars partner Lacey … Read More…
That’s all the news for today guys, so until next time, thanks for stopping by.
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08.May.09 first date Read more Comments (0)
If you can stay away from these first date mistakes by men you should make it to date number two. You’re going to have to show your date that you’re confident, and give a good impression with looking arrogant. The way you dress, what you talk about and your table manners are going to be under close scrutiny.
First off you need to decide where to eat. This is going to be up to you, so you have to get it right. Get this wrong and it will spoil everything right from the start of your date. Places to avoid are definitely fast food outlets. This will not go down well at all, and you’ll be lucky if you’re still on the date before you finish your food. At the other end of the scale you don’t want to take a lady on a first date to a fancy restaurant that is way out of your price range. For one she’ll think you’ve gone over the top, and two, you will be choosing all the cheapest items on the menu. You want a nice restaurant that is comfortable, serves good food and one where you can relax, and not worry about the cost of the meal. It will be even more beneficial for you if you know the restaurant you’re going to. You can order your meal straight away, and make your own recommendations. Not knowing what you’re going to eat when you sit and study the menu for ten minutes will not be attractive.
You will need to dress to impress. You don’t want to turn up at a nice restaurant and look like you should be eating in a burger bar. Most women will go out and buy something new just to look good for you so you need to make an effort. A shirt, nice pants and polished shoes will be just right for the occasion. Back this up with immaculate personal hygiene like washed hair, no stubble and clean hands and nails. All this things will be looked at in the first 2 minutes of you meeting. Get this part right and your still heading for a good first date.
Showing that you’re not listening can be very aggravating. She will notice if your eyes are wondering around while she is talking to you. You need to show you are listening all the time. Throw in the odd question so she knows you’re paying attention. Never look at another women while you’re on your date especially the waitress. This will not look good for you. You need to put the blinkers on for the night, and ignore what’s going on around you.
Some things are best kept to yourself on your first date. In fact some of them can wait a few months before you start being too honest. Conversations to avoid are ex girlfriends, any criminal offenses no matter how minor, medications you might be taking and generally anything that isn’t going to sound good on a first date. She will have things that will be kept a secret as well in the early days, and that’s the way they should stay.
There are many more mistakes you could make on a first date but if you avoid these ones you should have some idea of what’s not acceptable behaviour.
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While the first date is all about getting to know each other, your companion shouldn’t be bombarded with enough questions to rival a “Law & Order” interrogation. Avoid these questions and you’ll have a better shot at date #2.
“Am I attractive to you?” Stop fishing for compliments. They wouldn’t be on a date with you otherwise!
“Am I your type?” This automatically creates a no-win situation. If you are their type, you’ll fume at the thought of being compared to all of their exes. If you’re not, you’ll feel insecure that you don’t measure up. You’ll find out soon enough if you’re their type so don’t jump the gun.
Ladies, don’t ask “When will I see you again?” If he hasn’t brought it up by now, chances are he won’t. At least, not for anything serious.
“Do we have a future?” This is a completely ridiculous question to ask if you’ve just started dating. It’s also a surefire way to scare someone off.
Men, never ask “Are your parents still together?” and follow it up with “Because family is very important to me.” This is just plain stupid. You aren’t dating her parents and whether her parents are married or not are no indication of her own level of
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Submitted by icampbell on January 29, 2009 – 4:39am. Home and Leisure | Relationships and Dating
Everyone has a different idea of what makes a great first date. And that is what can make it so difficult to plan for. After all, women have different opinions to men, and even from person to person the ideas can change a lot. But if you are sensible and you think about the situation in advance, you can often succeed in getting the perfect date that you are both hoping for.
But surely you would need to know each other really well before you can hope to create a successful date? Actually no – so long as you aren’t on a blind date and you know a little bit about each other in advance, you can make plans that you will both like. Even if you are trying out a blind date, you can always arrange to meet somewhere neutral and then decide where to go.
The whole idea of going on a date is to have the opportunity to become more familiar with each other. You can find out what the other person likes to do, what their interests are and much more besides. That’s why
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January 27, 5:07 PM
by Shawna Bowler, Denver Singles Scene Examiner
A few months ago I went on a date with a guy I met online. He seemed cool on paper. Or is it on screen? Doesn’t matter since the coolness did not come across in person. First off, he was too old for me. I mean, come on. Just because it’s the best picture you’ve ever taken does not excuse the fact that it was taken in 1995. Better to post a bad, but recent picture than a great, but really old picture. At least your date won’t be disappointed. Think about it, if you actually look younger or better in person than in your picture, the date can only get better from there.
Once the shock of his age settled in I realized that he must have hired someone to write his profile as well as every email he sent me. He was not at all as funny and entertaining in person as he was in writing. Not even close enough to make me think he may just have been nervous to meet in person. Oh boy, was he boring. I wound up doing most of the talking and making most of the jokes, just to keep the conversation entertaining while I plotted my escape.
To top it off, he brought me a rose, which I find far too presumptuous on the first date – especially since it was also the first time we had met. Incidentally, many women feel the same way I do about the whole rose-on-the-first-date thing. There is often a certain expectation that goes along with a gift like that. Marketers call it reciprocity. I call it creepy. I mean, this guy didn’t even know me. He didn’t know whether I like roses (I don’t) or even whether I might be allergic to them (I’m not, but he wouldn’t know that…). And what if he hated me? He hadn’t met me yet, how did he know that my profile picture wasn’t taken 15 years and 150 lbs ago?
Of course, he thought we had chemistry. During the occasional pause in the conversation I was having with myself at Pekoe Sip House in Cherry Creek North, he would bang on about how much chemistry we had, how chemistry is so important and how we definitely for sure had chemistry. Because, he’s been out with so many women who thought they had chemistry with him and he just didn’t feel it and it was so amazing how much chemistry we had and isn’t it rare to find someone with whom you have real chemistry and wow! the chemistry we had was almost palpable.
“Oh! That’s not Chemistry,” I wanted to tell him. “That’s the heebie-jeebies.”
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Did you finally workup the courage to ask a girl on a date? If so, good for you! This is truly a step in the right direction. The first step in jumping into the dating scene is asking. But, what if you received a no? What does it mean? Continue reading on to find out and for tips on how to handle a first date rejection.
The Scenario: You like a girl from school. You asked her join you for a movie, but you were turned down. What do you do?
It is important gauge the no answer. Does she outright say no? Does she say she is busy this weekend, but maybe the next? If the girl says maybe next time, do not give up. There is still hope for you. On the other hand, if she outright says no, you may feel like running away in embarrassment, but don’t do it. Casually say “I’ll let you know if it is good.”
The Scenario: You asked a woman from work to join you for dinner, but she said no. What do you do?
Once again, you should gauge her answer. Did she outright say no? Did she say she didn’t like seafood? If you get a no because the woman doesn’t like your choice in restaurants, offer another suggestion. In fact, say “I’m not really a picky eater. If you would like, you could
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Do you want to ask a girl or a woman on a date? The best thing to do is ask. Just jump right in and do. With that said, you may want to think about the approach. If you are not careful, you may unintentionally pressure her into saying yes. Of course, you want to hear yes, but you want to receive a true yes, not a pressured yes.
So, how you can ask for a date without pressuring the woman?
Flirt. Flirting is one of the best ways to test the waters. If you are a public establishment, such as a bar, sporting event, or concert, you want to see if the girl is interested in you. Do this before taking the plunge. Flirting is the way to go because you can gauge her reaction. Does she seem interested? Does she flirt back? Is she trying to get away from you?
When it comes to flirting, you have many different options. Most importantly, put a smile on your face. Flirting will fall flat without a smile. Plus, a friendly smile will make it easier for women to approach you. Also, make eye contact. Whether you approach her for a conversation or flirt from afar, try to lock eyes. If you are with a group of friends, separate yourself from the crowd. Go start a conversation with her or wait until she approaches you.
Strike up a conversation. If you do not have a fear of approaching women, skip the flirting and start with a conversation. Walk up and say you noticed her from across the room. Introduce yourself and she should do the same. When having a casual conversation with a girl you just met, start out slow. Ask if she is having fun. If listening to a band at a bar, ask what type of music she likes, and so forth. If she is interested, the conversation will take off on its own.
Once you have made contact with a woman you just met and are still interested, it is time to
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